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How I Won Custody |
“Men Can and Do
Win Custody
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Learn the 12 vital criteria the courts use to determine who should have custody. I am going to give you law code for all 50 states. |
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I will tell you how to methodically plan and prepare for each of these vital criteria and be successful in having the Court find in your favor. |
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You will learn the failed approach that men have been using for the past 30 years and continue to use to this day. |
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You will learn the failed tactics that men have been using for the past 30 years. |
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I tell you the things men say in court to try and make their ex look bad but will actually backfire and make you look like the bad guy. |
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Learn how from the very beginning you can form an unbreakable foundation to build your case upon. |
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I tell you how to handle your visits with the Child Custody Evaluator. |
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I tell you how to present yourself in court. |
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Learn how to handle potentially volatile situations with your ex. |
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I tell you how to tactfully capitalize on mistakes your ex already has or will make that at first glance seem unimportant. |
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I tell you the number one most important person that you need to convince that you should have custody. Win this person over and you ex doesn’t have a chance. |
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You will read how I chose my attorney and why. |
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the argument that practically 99% of men use as to why he should have custody... but it fails everytime. If you are using this argument you need to STOP NOW!! |
I had lived in Florida my whole life and was 33 years old when I filed for custody of my son… he was 9 months old. And let me say this now; I was going up against a formidable opponent.
This was not a situation whereas his mother had previously been in trouble with the law, drugs, “missing in action” or anything of that nature. She is smart, educated and has a good job. -- Custody was not handed to me. I had to fight for it...
... This is the true account of how I won.
It was my first time ever going through something like this, but, over the previous years I had seen and heard my share of custody war stories from strangers, friends and family.
Of all the stories I heard, the result was always the same…the man lost. Now that I was going through it for myself I thought about every case and story I had ever heard and I re-examined them closely.
I began to realize there was something in common in all those cases. These men had all used the same approach… and it failed everytime! (I will tell you what it is and how to avoid it.)
I was determined not to make the same mistakes and was going to stay as far away from their failed approach as possible. --
I carefully looked at what was wrong with their approach and I came up with my own strategy and methodology that would be highly effective – and it was.
I promise you - this was no accident, it was not a fluke and it was not luck. It was through careful planning, modern day thinking and smart strategy with some good common sense that enabled me to win. And so can you!
One of the aspects of my strategy was something that had been forever staring us men in the face and we never even realized it; and attorneys have been too busy with the legal wrangling to see it either.
It is one of those things that have been “hiding in plain sight”... and you will learn about that here.
But, also to win custody I knew I would need to have a NEW way of thinking. A FRESH approach with FRESH ideas... these things and many others you will learn about here too.
“The Child Custody Evaluator and taking the psychological exams.”
For my case and almost every custody case I heard of there was a Court appointed Child Custody Evaluator (CCE). This may be a psychologist or what is called a Guardian Ad Litem. In my case the CCE was a psychologist.
In my case and in many cases the CCE will want you and the mother to take a psychological exam called the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory or more simply called the MMPI-2 and the 16 Personality Factor Inventory.
The MMPI-2 is the benchmark by which all other psychology tests are measured. It is the most widely-used test in psychology.
You cannot fool this test. The approach that most people use towards this test is TOTALLY wrong - but in their mind seems so right. Whatever you do don't fall into this psychological quicksand.
I am going to tell you my approach on how I took both these tests vs. the approach my ex took; and as a result why I was the parent who came out on top. You will know exactly what to do and what not to do.
“I had some legal disadvantages against me right from the start… but I overcame them!”
A Father who was married to the mother when the child was born has equal rights under the law to the child. But in my case my ex and I were never married. So this puts me at a great disadvantage right from the start.
In the state of Florida if the parents were not married when the child was born the mother automatically has custody by default and the father has no rights to the child at all. That was the first strike I had against me going into this thing.
When you read my story I'll tell you exactly how I overcame this obstacle BEFORE I even set foot in the courtroom!
Secondly, my ex has custody of a child from her previous relationship. Yes, that’s right our son had a sibling. And guess what… the Court doesn’t like to separate siblings.
And third my son being only 9 months old was in a time period of his life that the Courts call the "tender years". But with out dissecting this too much let me just give you the straight and narrow on this term --
-- "tender years" = mom gets custody.
But I had a simple plan on how to beat the unfairness of the "tender years"... and guess what? It worked! It worked so well that the Court, my ex and her attorney didn't even see it coming.
I had such a well thought out plan that I was successful in overcoming all three of these BIG obstacles (plus many more) and was able to win custody...
... even in a court system that is hesitant to separate siblings. This clearly demonstrates how powerful and successful my approach was.
As you can clearly see now... my modern day approach and methodology for winning custody have proven themselves.
“Are feelings of anxiety, fear and helplessness overcoming you at times?”
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Do you believe your ex is telling your children lies about you? |
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Do you believe your ex is turning your children against you? |
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Are you worried your ex may try to cut you out of your children’s lives completely? |
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Are you worried about how negatively affected the children will be from her keeping them apart from you? |
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Is you ex currently limiting your time with your children? |
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Are you currently paying an outrageous amount in temporary child support because your ex refuses to work while the case is pending? |
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Are you worried your ex is or will try to replace you as your children’s father with her new boyfriend? |
If you answer yes to any or all of the above questions then you should do everything in your power to win custody. You should stop short of nothing but illegal activity to do what is right for your children.
By the mere fact that you have come to my website and have read this far it is obvious that you are a good loving father that has their child’s best interest in mind. Many fathers would not go this distance.
“ATTENTION!
The following information
is only for those men
who truly believe that they are
the best choice as custodial parent…”
I have found that people for different reason come to my website to read about my case. But the three most common are the following:
But my concern is getting my story to a father like yourself, who is trying to do the right thing.
It would be great to share this information with you freely. However, at the same time I need to protect my story and its powerful contents from the two types of negative people listed above who wish to abuse it.
The methods and strategies that I successfully used to gain custody of my son are much too powerful to fall into the hands of those people. However, I am going to make my story available to you.
Now picture this:
Take a look into the future and visualize it’s the end of your case. You have read my proven modern day approach and taken some of the information methodology and strategies from MY case and implemented them into your own.
Your FINAL HEARING is now over and you’ve been waiting anxiously to hear the Judges decision. Finally - your attorney calls and says “YOU WON” the Court finds that “the Father should retain custody of the minor child(ren).”
You now feel a great relief knowing that...
Now stop and look back on today. Considering that you’ve now WON, you have custody - and no more worries… how much would it be worth to you?
To determine this, I carefully analyzed the situation of trying to deter the negative people from getting their hands on my story and at the same time making it affordable to a father like you.
If you truly believe that you are the best choice as custodial parent, then I will give you access to my secret website so you can read my story for the affordable price of $49.00.
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IMPORTANT UPDATE: You arrived at this page just in time to take advantage of my special test offer. Through , 2010 I’ve dropped the price to just $27. I’m doing this to see if at this lower price it still works as an effective deterrent to the negative people. If it doesn’t and I get more nasty emails from angry women then expect to pay the higher price when you return. |
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How to Get Access
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Would you like to read my account of how I won custody - a father who has actually won and proved his methods work? Are you willing to do everything you possibly can for your children?
If you answered “yes” and you want access right now - then click on the link below. And don't for get you get the 4 FREE bonuses too.
YES!! I’m ready to read your story. (Click here now >>>)
You will be given a username, password and the address to my secret website... and in the next 3 minutes you will be reading how I won custody.
All the best.
P.S. Now if you’re hesitant about the $49.00 ($27 thru the deadline) then here is another scenario to picture.
Take a look into the future again, only this time your attorney calls to say “YOU LOST”. You now realize that all your fears have just come true.
So now ask yourself this… will you regret NOT exploring every avenue that was available to you? Will you regret NOT reading my story?
Are you truly serious about winning custody to ensure your children have a healthy relationship with you? Or are you just going through the motions and putting in a half effort?
No matter if you decide to read my story about how I won custody or not I wish you success in your fight for custody!
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